I have been accused of “sheltering” my kids from the world,and if they mean sheltering them from an ungodly, sinful, immoral, Politically Correct(but morally incorrect) secular world of ungodliness and violence, then, yes, I have, and I’m proud of it! It’s my JOB to keep my kids safe, godly, free from worldliness, immorality, sin, from Enviro indoctrination, violence,anti-God, anti-family,anti-life, and anti-faith views, and if they also “miss” out on certain things along the way as a result then so be it; that’s just the way it has to be. The main thing is to raise godly, righteous kids that shun the corruption and immorality of the world, so that they have high moral standards and make it to Heaven, avoiding worldliness and a “tolerant” “anything goes” attitude. This is what’s most important.They need to be protected from evil.
As well, I am being hassled by my hubby and mother about never agrreing moms should work outside of the home or send their kids to public school. Not surprising about her since she DID farm me off to daycare from age 6 weeks and public school where I was outcast and bullied, triggering my Social Phobia and emotional trauma and life-long damage as a result and growing up never being loved or learning how to love, not bonding with my parents…but I’m surprised at him; he USED to agree with me but somewhere along the way seems to have “lost” his family values! Moms belong home with their kids, period. Why even HAVE kids if you can’t even be bothered to be there for them and send them out for strangers to raise or to be indoctrinated by the State? That happened to me and it’s one of my biggest regrets and damaged me. Anyone can stay home with their kids, and homeschool, and survive on one salary. It all comes down to priorities and what’s most important; if you care enough about your kids you’ll find a way to make it work; anyone can do it; you just have to sacrifice, and that may mean no vacations, used clothing, buying groceries reduced, having only one used car, etc. but what’s best for the KIDS is what’s most important; NOT careers or material things. I even know single mothers who stay at home and still manage to homeschool.If it’s important enough anyone can do it.It’s just easier to send the kids off and not have to bother, but it’s not right, it’s not fulfilling your responsibility as a parent to raise your own kids, it’s not healthy for the kids,and it’s not right.
Even if I ended up a widow and on my own I still wouldn’t go out to work or send my kids off to public school as I know it’s not good for them. I would rather live in a small cramped apartment and be on welfare than to have my family separated and destroyed.If I wasn’t home raising my kids, and if they were sent to daycare or public school it would damage them so beyond repair,and fracture our family, like what happened to me and I would NEVER let that happen no matter what, because their well-being is what matters most and I’d do whatever I have to to ensure their well-being and that would still never change, even if our circumstances would; I believe in it that much.Family values are that important to me.
The world brainwashes moms into thinking they can have the career and the family…but at what price? The kids grow up hardly ever seeing their mother, and don’t learn proper attachments, how to bond, how to love, how to feel safe, secure and nurtured,and feel abandoned, unwanted, a burden and least in priority, with career and the almighty dollar having more values than them and family time. Why even have kids if you’re too selfish, too lazy, or too materialistic to even stay home with them? If you love your kids and want what’s best for them you’d give them time, which matters most,and why would you send them off to immoral public schools, rife with violence and ungodliness, not to mention the propaganda and indoctrination,and the poor quality education?
I will never change or back down on my strong opinions and beliefs on this.Moms staying home and homeschooling is best for kids in all ways and it keeps them safe, secure, loved, well-educated,and shielded from an ungodly secular influence, so if I am guilty of “sheltering” my kids it is only because I know what’s best for them and want to protect ,provide,nourish and build up their spiritual, moral, and academic potential and progress, and you can’t do that if you send them off to be raised and educated by strangers. It DOESN’T “take a village to raise a child”; it takes two parents and the mother should be home with them!