This is too low even for my heartless mother.She just informed me when she dies that she’s cutting me out and leaving me nothing; she’s giving it all to the kids.All I’ll have is half the house(which I already have now anyway; paid for with my grandmother’s inheritence;she paid for the other half) and that she’s leaving her half to the kids, bypassing me. This is her last final indignity, after treating me like a worthless piece of shit my entire life; she even wants to control and punish me after she’s dead.This is her final “Fuck you!” act.
I explained that the way it’s supposed to work is she dies and I get everything(which I would share with the kids anyway) and then when I die the kids get everything. She smirked she can do whatever she wants with it and my hubby doesn’t see anything wrong with it,either. I have NEVER felt so hurt, betrayed, deceived, ganged-up on, left out and cheated. He even had the nerve to say that *I* should treat HER better when she’s the one always hassling me and somehow when I stand up to her and defend myself it’s being mean to HER? I’m so sick of this shit. I just wish I was dead. She has always been cruel but this is going too far even for her, it’s like a knife in my heart.
She snickers that I “won’t need” $$$ as in 10 years I’m going to do missionary work in Africa but I’ll be 55 years old then and likely only expect to be able to do it for 5-10 years and by then be too old and sick and when I do eventually return I’ll need to live SOMEWHERE; old-age home or small apt. or something and I’ll have to pay for my last years in some way! She’s basically just tossing me out onto the street leaving me without anything(other than the “half” a house I already own!) and excuses I’m “Not her kid; I’m an adult” ….even though most “kids” ARE adults by the time their parents die and they inherit.I can’t believe the level of hatred she has for me and the limit she’ll go to crush and hurt me.
The bitch said she’ll be going to a lawyer to re-do her will soon.(She turns 70 tomorrow) as the old will left everything to me, that she had done about 9 years ago. This is just one final slap in the face to me; the final indignity to shit on me. I fully plan on contesting it in court for the principle of the thing; to not let her get away with it. I will NOT let her dying wish be to cut me off and toss me aside like a piece of garbage. She at least owes me that after how she’s treated me my entire life. My hubby is no better; siding with her,just like he always does. I have never felt so alone and so unwanted and discarded. I feel betrayed and devastated.If they’d pay my rent, bills and bring me groceries I’d move out and leave NOW. (With my Asperger’s, Social Phobia, and no life skills, social skills or job skills and can’t relate to other people or function out in the “real” world I am unable to work) and I just can’t wrap my mind around how much my family hates me and wants me out, in every single way.I am being left out and disowned in every way possible.