My Asperger’s.

Screen Shot 07-13-17 at 10.44 AM As soon as my hubby got home the other day the first thing he did was come down on me and tear me down for keep doing the same stupid things over and never learn! This time because before he left he told me to tell the 22 YR old to shock the pool so I did and then he rips into me because it rained,  how it’s just a waste of money, etc. as you’re supposed to shock it after it rains,and not if it’s raining , even though he did it before it rained and it wasn’t raining when he did it, and he blames me like I’m responsible for the weather, and his usual condescending tirade about how dumb I am, making me feel like a worthless piece of shit….the usual

You keep doing the same stupid things over and never learn!

Those are the words he said to me, and my reply: If he can find a cure for Asperger’s then to let me know, and a cure for being an asshole too because he’s going to need that one! It’s not fair or right that he constantly belittles and criticizes me for something I can’t help and have no control over, a disability, I was born this way; I’m not doing it on purpose to annoy you! I bet he was that asshole kid in school that made fun of the Special Ed kids,too, or laughs at handicapped kids, and the way he treats me for my Asperger’s is no different than yelling at a deaf guy because he can’t hear you, or yelling at a blind guy for bumping into you. Just total lack of understanding. You can’t blame someone for their disability or get mad at them for it, holy shit…it’s hard enough having a disability without all that extra added shit…

As well, while walking Buddy I saw an empty syringe on the grass under a shrub so some junkie must have shot up and tossed it away….but….OMG….that’s just so….gross…so….unhygenic! I  also heard the number one genre of music on the radio in this country is redneck country music ( eeeewww!) proving my theory though that this really is  a nation of uncultured rednecks,  and I also heard on the news that some Native reservation are refusing to evacuate the BC fires and the authorities ordered them that if they don’t that all their children will be removed from the community. Sounds like the horrific gov’t Residential Schools all over again! Talk about Fascist Big Brother tactics! They’re always f*cking over the Natives, too. When are they ever going to leave them alone?

I had this cool idea as well: wouldn’t it be great if the 14 YR old and I could both move to Toronto together, just the two of us ( and Buddy of course) since both of us love the city and want to live there, and she seems to thrive and come alive there (and I know I certainly do!) and neither of us are happy here, and this way I also get to get away from this toxic environment that’s destroyed my soul, as well as away from my hubby, who’s destroyed my life, but I also know that realistically we can’t afford 2 residences, and the average monthly rent in Toronto now is 2000$ . It would be nice though, for both of us. maybe both our broken souls could heal together?

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